
Following Jesus: You May Lose Much But Never Your Soul
Following Jesus: You May Lose Much But Never Your Soul
Understanding the cost of discipleship and the eternal value of the soul in contrast to temporary earthly losses, and discovering why following Christ is worth any price we might pay in this world.
Jesus Christ posed one of the most profound questions in all of Scripture when He asked in Matthew 16:26, "For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?" This penetrating question strikes at the heart of human existence and forces us to consider what truly matters in light of eternity. The implicit answer is sobering: gaining everything the world offers is worthless if we forfeit our eternal soul in the process. Conversely, losing everything the world values is inconsequential if we preserve our soul for eternity. This principle establishes the fundamental calculus by which followers of Christ must evaluate life's choices, opportunities, and costs.
The path of following Jesus has never been easy or comfortable. From the earliest days of Christianity, disciples of Christ have faced opposition, persecution, loss, and suffering for their faith. Jesus Himself never sugar-coated the cost of discipleship or promised His followers an easy road. In Luke 9:23, He declared, "If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me." Taking up one's cross was a vivid metaphor His original audience would have immediately understood—it meant accepting rejection, suffering, and even death. Jesus made it clear that following Him would require sacrifice, would cost us something, and might lead to significant earthly losses.
Yet despite these costs, Jesus insists that following Him is the only rational choice when viewed from an eternal perspective. He continues in Luke 9:24-25: "For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: but whosoever will lose his life for my sake, the same shall save it. For what is a man advantaged, if he gain the whole world, and lose himself, or be cast away?" This paradoxical principle—that we must lose our life to save it—defies worldly wisdom but reflects eternal truth. When we cling to our lives, seeking to preserve comfort, possessions, reputation, and security at all costs, we ultimately lose what matters most. But when we willingly surrender our lives to Christ, accepting whatever losses that entails, we gain eternal life—something of infinitely greater value than anything this world offers.
Throughout this comprehensive study, we will explore what the Bible teaches about the cost of following Jesus, examine the various kinds of losses disciples might experience, understand the eternal value of the human soul, discover the compensations and rewards God provides to faithful followers, and learn how to maintain faithful discipleship even when following Christ becomes costly. Whether you are considering what it means to follow Christ, struggling with the costs you are currently paying for your faith, or wondering whether faithfulness to Christ is worth the sacrifices it requires, this biblical exploration will provide clarity, encouragement, and conviction that no earthly loss compares to the eternal gain of keeping your soul through faith in Christ.
"For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it." - Matthew 16:25
The Cost of Following Christ
Jesus was remarkably honest with potential disciples about the cost of following Him. Unlike modern recruiters who might minimize difficulties to attract followers, Jesus explicitly warned people about what discipleship would require. Understanding these costs is essential both for those considering following Christ and for current disciples who need to count the cost and renew their commitment. Let us examine what Scripture teaches about the various dimensions of discipleship's cost.
First and foremost, following Jesus requires denying ourselves. Luke 9:23 makes this the primary requirement: "If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me." Self-denial means surrendering our will to God's will, our plans to His purposes, and our desires to His commands. It means we no longer live to please ourselves but to please Christ. Galatians 2:20 expresses this principle: "I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me." The old self-centered life must be crucified—put to death—so that Christ can live through us. This is not a one-time event but a daily practice of surrendering our will to His.
Second, following Jesus may cost us relationships. Jesus stated this sobering reality in Matthew 10:34-37: "Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword. For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law. And a man's foes shall be they of his own household. He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me." Jesus is not promoting family discord but acknowledging the reality that when one family member follows Christ and others do not, division often results. Some believers have been disowned by families, rejected by friends, or ostracized by communities because of their faith. Luke 14:26 records Jesus' even more startling statement: "If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple." The term "hate" here means to love less in comparison; it is a Hebrew idiom expressing preference. Jesus must be loved supremely, even above our closest family relationships.
Material and Financial Costs
Third, following Jesus may cost us materially and financially. In Luke 18:22, Jesus told the rich young ruler, "Yet lackest thou one thing: sell all that thou hast, and distribute unto the poor, and thou shalt have treasure in heaven: and come, follow me." While Jesus does not require all His followers to sell everything they own, He does require that we hold our possessions loosely, recognizing that He has ultimate claim on everything we have. Some missionaries leave lucrative careers to serve in impoverished areas. Some believers choose lower-paying jobs that allow them to honor God rather than higher-paying positions that would compromise their faith. Some give sacrificially to support gospel ministry even when it strains their own budgets. First Timothy 6:10 warns, "For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows." Jesus taught that we cannot serve both God and mammon (Matthew 6:24). Following Christ requires prioritizing kingdom purposes above wealth accumulation and being willing to suffer financial loss rather than compromise our faith.
Fourth, following Jesus may cost us our comfort and security. Jesus had no permanent home during His earthly ministry. When a would-be disciple said, "Master, I will follow thee whithersoever thou goest," Jesus responded, "The foxes have holes, and the birds of the air have nests; but the Son of man hath not where to lay his head" (Matthew 8:19-20). Jesus wanted this man to count the cost before committing to discipleship. Following Christ might mean physical hardship, uncertain circumstances, or lack of material security. Hebrews 11 recounts the suffering of Old Testament saints who "had trial of cruel mockings and scourgings, yea, moreover of bonds and imprisonment: They were stoned, they were sawn asunder, were tempted, were slain with the sword: they wandered about in sheepskins and goatskins; being destitute, afflicted, tormented" (Hebrews 11:36-37). These faithful believers gave up comfort and security to follow God.
Fifth, following Jesus may cost us our reputation. Jesus was called a glutton, a winebibber, a friend of sinners, and demon-possessed by His opponents (Matthew 11:19; John 7:20). Paul wrote that believers are considered "as the filth of the world, and the offscouring of all things" (1 Corinthians 4:13). Christians throughout history have been mocked, slandered, and misrepresented because of their faith. First Peter 4:4 warns, "Wherein they think it strange that ye run not with them to the same excess of riot, speaking evil of you." When we refuse to participate in sinful activities or when we take stands for biblical truth, others may speak evil of us. We may be called narrow-minded, judgmental, intolerant, or hateful simply for believing and proclaiming what Scripture teaches. Our professional reputations may suffer when we refuse to compromise biblical standards. Our social standing may diminish when we prioritize church and ministry over cultural events and social climbing.
Sixth, following Jesus may cost us opportunities and advancement. Daniel's three friends faced a choice between bowing to Nebuchadnezzar's golden image or being thrown into a fiery furnace (Daniel 3). They chose faithfulness to God over self-preservation. Daniel himself faced being thrown into a den of lions because he continued praying to God despite a decree forbidding it (Daniel 6). In modern contexts, Christians may face similar choices—though usually less dramatic. A student may refuse to cheat on an exam and consequently receive a lower grade. An employee may refuse to lie for their boss and consequently lose a promotion. A businessperson may refuse to engage in unethical practices and consequently lose clients. Following Christ means we prioritize obedience to God over worldly advancement.
Seventh, following Jesus may cost us our lives. Jesus warned in Matthew 10:28, "And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell." Throughout church history, countless believers have been martyred for their faith. Foxe's Book of Martyrs documents hundreds of believers who chose death rather than deny Christ. Even today, Christians in many nations face imprisonment, torture, and death for following Jesus. Revelation 12:11 describes the victory of martyrs: "And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony; and they loved not their lives unto the death." While most Western Christians do not currently face martyrdom, we must be prepared to follow Christ even if it costs us our lives.
Despite all these potential costs, Jesus makes it clear that following Him is worth it. In Mark 10:29-30, He promises, "Verily I say unto you, There is no man that hath left house, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my sake, and the gospel's, But he shall receive an hundredfold now in this time, houses, and brethren, and sisters, and mothers, and children, and lands, with persecutions; and in the world to come eternal life." Whatever we lose for Christ's sake, we gain far more—both in this life (spiritual family, purpose, joy) and in the life to come (eternal rewards). The cost is real, but the reward is infinitely greater.
"Yea doubtless, and I count all things but loss for the excellency of the knowledge of Christ Jesus my Lord: for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and do count them but dung, that I may win Christ." - Philippians 3:8
The Eternal Value of the Soul
To understand why no earthly loss compares to losing one's soul, we must comprehend what the Bible teaches about the nature, destiny, and value of the human soul. The soul is not merely a religious concept but the immaterial, eternal part of human beings that will continue to exist forever after the body dies. Understanding the soul's eternal significance helps us maintain proper perspective on temporary earthly losses. Let us examine what Scripture reveals about the human soul and its infinite value.
The Bible teaches that humans are created in God's image (Genesis 1:26-27), possessing both material bodies and immaterial souls or spirits. While animals have biological life, humans have spiritual life that makes them capable of relationship with God, moral reasoning, and eternal existence. Genesis 2:7 describes humanity's creation: "And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul." God's breath imparted spiritual life, making humans fundamentally different from the rest of creation. This spiritual dimension means that humans are not merely advanced animals but image-bearers of God with eternal destinies.
The soul is the essential person—the core identity that transcends the physical body. Second Corinthians 5:8 speaks of being "absent from the body, and to be present with the Lord," indicating that the person continues to exist consciously even after physical death. The rich man and Lazarus in Luke 16:19-31 were both conscious and aware after death, experiencing either comfort or torment based on their earthly choices. The soul is the part of us that knows, feels, decides, and relates—the essential "I" that experiences existence. When the Bible speaks of saving or losing one's soul, it refers to the eternal destiny of this immaterial but real aspect of human personhood.
The Eternal Destiny of the Soul
The Bible consistently teaches that every human soul will exist forever in one of two destinations: heaven or hell. There is no third option of annihilation, unconsciousness, or reincarnation. Hebrews 9:27 declares, "And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment." Death is followed by judgment, not by ceasing to exist. Matthew 25:46 describes the final separation: "And these shall go away into everlasting punishment: but the righteous into life eternal." Both destinations are eternal—there is no escape from hell and no end to heaven. The duration is the same; only the experience differs. Daniel 12:2 prophesies, "And many of them that sleep in the dust of the earth shall awake, some to everlasting life, and some to shame and everlasting contempt." The stakes could not be higher: the soul will spend eternity either in the presence of God experiencing infinite joy or separated from God experiencing infinite suffering. This eternal destiny is determined during our earthly lives based on whether we trust in Christ for salvation or reject Him.
The value of the soul is immeasurable precisely because its existence is eternal and its destiny is irreversible. Earthly possessions, achievements, pleasures, and relationships are all temporary. First John 2:17 reminds us, "And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever." Everything in this world is transient, but the soul endures forever. James 4:14 asks, "For what is your life? It is even a vapour, that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away." Our earthly lives are brief—like a vapor that appears for a moment and then vanishes. But our souls are eternal. Comparing temporary earthly gains with eternal soul destiny is comparing finite to infinite, momentary to eternal, trivial to ultimate.
Jesus' question in Matthew 16:26—"For what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?"—highlights the soul's incomparable value. The implied answer is that there is nothing of equal value that could be traded for a soul. If someone offered you all the wealth in the world in exchange for your soul spending eternity in hell, would it be a good trade? Of course not! Any finite amount of earthly pleasure, success, wealth, or fame is worthless compared to eternal destiny. Yet people effectively make this trade every day when they pursue worldly gain while neglecting their souls' eternal welfare. They chase money, pleasure, fame, and success while ignoring the gospel and living in rebellion against God, unknowingly trading their eternal souls for temporary earthly enjoyment.
Mark 8:36 poses the question slightly differently: "For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?" Notice that Jesus doesn't say "gain many things" but "gain the whole world"—everything earth has to offer. Imagine someone who achieved ultimate worldly success: they became the richest, most famous, most powerful, most respected person on earth. They experienced every pleasure, visited every place, accomplished every goal. But they died without Christ and spent eternity in hell. What did they profit? Nothing. In fact, they suffered infinite loss. All their earthly gains, which seemed so important while they lived, became completely meaningless the moment they died. Proverbs 11:4 teaches, "Riches profit not in the day of wrath: but righteousness delivereth from death." When we stand before God in judgment, earthly wealth and achievement will be worthless; only our relationship with Christ will matter.
Conversely, someone who loses everything earthly but keeps their soul by trusting in Christ has gained infinitely more than they lost. Paul expresses this perspective in Philippians 3:7-8: "But what things were gain to me, those I counted loss for Christ. Yea doubtless, and I count all things but loss for the excellency of the knowledge of Christ Jesus my Lord: for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and do count them but dung, that I may win Christ." Paul had impressive credentials—educated, respected, zealous, morally upright. But he considered all of it worthless compared to knowing Christ. He suffered the loss of everything—reputation, career, comfort, security—and counted it all as garbage compared to the surpassing worth of knowing Christ and securing his eternal soul.
The soul's value is also seen in the price God paid to redeem it. First Peter 1:18-19 declares, "Forasmuch as ye know that ye were not redeemed with corruptible things, as silver and gold, from your vain conversation received by tradition from your fathers; But with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot." God did not redeem souls with earthly wealth but with the infinitely precious blood of His own Son. The life of God incarnate—Jesus Christ—was given to purchase human souls. This demonstrates that God values the human soul more than anything else in creation. If the soul were not infinitely valuable, God would not have paid an infinite price to redeem it. But because souls are infinitely precious to God, He gave His Son to die so that souls might be saved.
Understanding the soul's eternal value transforms how we view earthly losses. When we lose money, possessions, opportunities, relationships, or even health because of following Christ, we are not truly losing if we keep our souls. Romans 8:18 provides this perspective: "For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us." Present sufferings—no matter how intense—cannot compare to eternal glory. Second Corinthians 4:17 adds, "For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory." What feels heavy and prolonged in the moment is actually light and momentary compared to eternal glory. This doesn't minimize real suffering, but it provides proper perspective: temporary earthly losses are insignificant compared to eternal soul destiny.
"And I say unto you my friends, Be not afraid of them that kill the body, and after that have no more that they can do." - Luke 12:4
Counting the Cost and Making the Choice
Jesus explicitly taught that potential disciples should carefully consider what following Him will require before making a commitment. This principle of counting the cost is not meant to discourage people from following Christ but to ensure that their commitment is informed, deliberate, and genuine rather than impulsive and superficial. Let us examine what Scripture teaches about making an informed decision to follow Christ regardless of earthly costs.
Luke 14:28-33 records Jesus' teaching about counting the cost: "For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it? Lest haply, after he hath laid the foundation, and is not able to finish it, all that behold it begin to mock him, Saying, This man began to build, and was not able to finish. Or what king, going to make war against another king, sitteth not down first, and consulteth whether he be able with ten thousand to meet him that cometh against him with twenty thousand? Or else, while the other is yet a great way off, he sendeth an ambassage, and desireth conditions of peace. So likewise, whosoever he be of you that forsaketh not all that he hath, he cannot be my disciple." Jesus uses two illustrations—building a tower and going to war—to make His point. No rational person begins a costly project without first considering whether they have the resources to complete it. Similarly, Jesus wants potential disciples to understand what following Him will require so they can make an informed commitment rather than starting enthusiastically and then abandoning the faith when difficulties arise.
The parable of the sower in Matthew 13:3-23 illustrates different responses to the gospel message. Some seed fell on stony ground where it quickly sprouted but had no root, so when the sun came up, it withered away. Jesus explained that this represents those who "hear the word, and anon with joy receiveth it; Yet hath he not root in himself, but dureth for a while: for when tribulation or persecution ariseth because of the word, by and by he is offended" (Matthew 13:20-21). These people initially respond positively to the gospel but fall away when following Christ becomes costly. They never truly counted the cost or established deep roots of genuine faith. Other seed fell among thorns that choked it. Jesus explained that this represents those who hear the word, "but the care of this world, and the deceitfulness of riches, choke the word, and he becometh unfruitful" (Matthew 13:22). These people allow worldly concerns and desire for wealth to crowd out their commitment to Christ. Only the seed that fell on good ground—representing those who truly hear, understand, and persevere—bears lasting fruit.
The Sufficiency of God's Grace
While counting the cost is important, we must also understand that God provides the grace needed to persevere through whatever costs we face. Following Christ is not primarily about our strength or sufficiency but about His enabling grace. Second Corinthians 12:9 records Jesus' promise to Paul: "My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness." When we are weak, God's strength is perfected in us. We don't need to be strong enough in ourselves to handle whatever following Christ requires; we need to rely on His sufficient grace. Philippians 4:13 declares, "I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me." Our ability to follow Christ faithfully comes from Christ Himself, who strengthens us for whatever we face. This means that counting the cost is not about assessing our own resources but about trusting God's provision. Will following Christ cost us things? Yes. Will God provide what we need to remain faithful? Absolutely.
When we count the cost and recognize what following Christ may require, we must also consider what not following Christ will cost. While following Christ may cost us earthly things, rejecting Christ costs us our souls eternally. The rich young ruler in Matthew 19:16-22 provides a sobering example. When Jesus told him to sell his possessions and follow Him, "he went away sorrowful: for he had great possessions." This man chose temporary earthly wealth over eternal life with Christ. He counted the cost of following Jesus but failed to count the cost of not following Him. His choice to hold onto his wealth cost him his soul. This is the tragic calculation many people make: they focus on what following Christ will cost them while ignoring what rejecting Christ will cost them.
Making the choice to follow Christ involves submitting our wills to His lordship and committing to obey Him regardless of cost. This is what it means for Jesus to be Lord. Romans 10:9 connects confession of Jesus as Lord with salvation: "That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved." Confessing Jesus as Lord is not merely acknowledging that He has authority but submitting to that authority in our lives. We cannot claim Jesus as Savior while rejecting Him as Lord. Luke 6:46 records Jesus' pointed question: "And why call ye me, Lord, Lord, and do not the things which I say?" True discipleship involves both belief and obedience, both faith and submission.
For those who have already made the commitment to follow Christ, counting the cost is not a one-time decision but an ongoing practice. As we face new challenges, opposition, or costs, we must continually reaffirm our commitment to Christ above all else. Peter had to count the cost again when Jesus asked him three times, "Lovest thou me?" (John 21:15-17). Each time Peter affirmed his love, Jesus gave him the commission to feed His sheep. Later, according to church tradition, Peter was crucified upside down for his faith. He counted the cost and remained faithful to the end. We too must daily take up our cross and follow Christ, choosing Him over competing loves and priorities.
Hebrews 11 provides encouragement by recounting the faith of Old Testament saints who counted the cost and chose God over earthly gain. Moses "refused to be called the son of Pharaoh's daughter; Choosing rather to suffer affliction with the people of God, than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season; Esteeming the reproach of Christ greater riches than the treasures in Egypt: for he had respect unto the recompence of the reward" (Hebrews 11:24-26). Moses deliberately chose temporary suffering with God's people over temporary pleasure in sin, valuing future reward over present comfort. This is the calculation every follower of Christ must make: temporary earthly loss in exchange for eternal heavenly gain.
The examples of those who have counted the cost and chosen Christ inspire us to do the same. Countless believers throughout history and around the world today have willingly suffered loss for the sake of following Jesus. They have been imprisoned, tortured, martyred, ostracized, impoverished, and persecuted—yet they have considered it worth the cost because of the surpassing value of knowing Christ and preserving their souls for eternity. Their testimonies demonstrate that following Jesus, though costly, is worth any price we might pay.
"For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory." - 2 Corinthians 4:17
A Prayer of Commitment to Following Christ
Lord Jesus Christ, I come before You acknowledging that You are worthy of my complete devotion and that following You is worth any cost I might face. I confess that I have often been more concerned about earthly comfort, security, and acceptance than about faithfulness to You. Forgive me for the times I have chosen temporary earthly gain over eternal spiritual reality. I recognize that my soul is infinitely more valuable than anything this world offers, and I choose to follow You regardless of what it may cost me. If following You costs me relationships, I trust that You are sufficient. If following You costs me financially, I trust that You will provide. If following You costs me opportunities, I trust that Your plans are better. If following You costs me my reputation, I value Your approval above human opinion. If following You costs me my comfort, I embrace the cross You have called me to carry. Even if following You costs me my life, I trust that to die is gain and to be with You is far better. Give me courage to stand firm when opposition comes. Give me wisdom to discern Your will. Give me strength to persevere when the path is difficult. Remind me constantly that what I might lose for Your sake is nothing compared to what I gain in You. Thank You for the promise that those who lose their lives for Your sake will find them, and that temporary affliction is working for me an eternal weight of glory. Help me to keep my eyes fixed on You and on eternal realities rather than on temporary earthly circumstances. May my life demonstrate that following You is worth any price, and may my faithfulness point others to the infinite value of knowing You and preserving their souls for eternity. In Your precious name I pray, Amen.