
Discipleship and the Transformative Benefits of Following Jesus
Discipleship and the Transformative Benefits of Following Jesus
Discover what it truly means to be a disciple of Jesus Christ, learning from Him, walking in His ways, and experiencing profound spiritual growth, eternal purpose, and abundant life that flows from intimate relationship with the Savior who calls you to follow Him wholeheartedly.
"If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me." - Matthew 16:24 (KJV)
Discipleship forms the very heart of Christianity, yet it remains misunderstood, minimized, or neglected by many who profess faith in Christ. Jesus did not call people merely to intellectual agreement with doctrinal truths, emotional religious experiences, or superficial church attendance, but to radical, life-transforming discipleship—learning from Him as Master Teacher, following Him as Lord and Leader, and becoming like Him through the Holy Spirit's work. Matthew 28:19-20 records Christ's Great Commission: "Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world." Making disciples—not just converts, church members, or religious adherents but committed followers of Jesus—is Christianity's central mission.
The word "disciple" (Greek: mathetes) means learner, student, or follower—someone who sits under a teacher's instruction, learns his teachings, adopts his lifestyle, and becomes like him through consistent association and imitation. In Jesus' day, disciples of various rabbis followed their teachers constantly, observing their lives, memorizing their teachings, asking questions, serving their needs, and gradually becoming like them in knowledge, character, and practice. Jesus called twelve ordinary men to be His disciples, inviting them into three years of intensive training during which they observed His miracles, heard His teachings, witnessed His prayers, experienced His compassion, learned His priorities, and were transformed from fishermen, tax collectors, and zealots into apostles who turned the world upside down.
But discipleship was not limited to the Twelve. Jesus called crowds to follow Him, issuing invitations that required counting the cost and making radical commitments. Luke 14:26-27 records His sobering words: "If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple. And whosoever doth not bear his cross, and come after me, cannot be my disciple." These words shock modern sensibilities and contradict contemporary Christianity's consumer-focused, low-commitment approach. Jesus demanded absolute priority above all earthly relationships and willingness to suffer persecution, hardship, and even martyrdom for His sake. Discipleship costs everything yet provides infinitely more than it requires, transforming aimless existence into purposeful living that glorifies God and brings lasting joy.
The Nature of Discipleship
Understanding discipleship requires examining Jesus' own teachings about what it means to follow Him. First, discipleship involves personal relationship with Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. John 10:27 states, "My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me." Disciples know Jesus personally, hear His voice through Scripture and the Holy Spirit, and follow Him obediently. This is not distant theological knowledge about Jesus but intimate, experiential knowledge of Jesus—knowing His character, His ways, His heart, His will. Philippians 3:10 expresses Paul's consuming passion: "That I may know him, and the power of his resurrection, and the fellowship of his sufferings, being made conformable unto his death." Discipleship pursues ever-deepening knowledge of Christ through consistent time in His presence.
Second, discipleship requires denying self and taking up your cross daily. Jesus declared in Luke 9:23, "If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me." Self-denial means rejecting self-centeredness, self-will, self-promotion, and self-sufficiency, surrendering completely to Christ's lordship over every area of life. Taking up your cross means willingly accepting suffering, persecution, loss, and sacrifice for Christ's sake, following Him regardless of cost. This daily decision—not a one-time commitment but continual choice—demonstrates genuine discipleship. Many want Jesus as Savior but reject Him as Lord, seeking His benefits without His authority, His blessings without His commands, His gifts without His lordship. But Jesus demands total surrender, absolute obedience, and complete devotion from those who would be His disciples.
Third, discipleship involves obeying Jesus' commands. John 14:15 states simply, "If ye love me, keep my commandments." Obedience demonstrates love for Christ and authenticates profession of faith. Jesus warned in Matthew 7:21, "Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven." Verbal profession without obedient action proves worthless. James 2:17 emphasizes, "Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone." Living faith produces obedience; dead faith produces only empty words. Disciples hear Jesus' words and do them (Matthew 7:24-27), demonstrating wisdom that withstands life's storms.
Fourth, discipleship produces fruit—spiritual, relational, and missional results that glorify God. Jesus taught in John 15:8, "Herein is my Father glorified, that ye bear much fruit; so shall ye be my disciples." Fruit includes Christlike character (Galatians 5:22-23), spiritual growth, lives transformed by the gospel, disciples made through evangelism and teaching, and glory brought to God through faithful witness. Fruitless profession indicates false discipleship, while fruitfulness validates genuine connection to Christ the Vine (John 15:1-8). God prunes fruitful branches to produce even greater fruitfulness, using trials, discipline, and testing to increase spiritual productivity.
Jesus' Call to Discipleship
Throughout the Gospels, Jesus issued calls to discipleship with varying expressions but consistent demands. In Matthew 4:19, He invited Simon Peter and Andrew, "Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men." This call promised transformation—from catching fish to catching men for the kingdom, from ordinary fishermen to world-changing apostles. Following Jesus changes identity, purpose, priorities, and eternal impact. Those who respond to His call discover purposes infinitely greater than anything they imagined pursuing.
Jesus called Matthew (Levi) the tax collector with the simple command, "Follow me" (Matthew 9:9). Matthew immediately left his lucrative but despised occupation, abandoning security and wealth to follow an itinerant rabbi with no earthly credentials or prospects. His obedience cost everything from a worldly perspective but gained everything from an eternal perspective—intimate fellowship with the Son of God, transformation from despised traitor to honored apostle, and the privilege of writing a Gospel that has blessed billions. Responding to Christ's call requires leaving everything that competes with absolute devotion to Him.
In John 1:43, Jesus found Philip and commanded, "Follow me." Philip immediately obeyed, then found Nathanael and testified, "We have found him, of whom Moses in the law, and the prophets, did write, Jesus of Nazareth, the son of Joseph" (John 1:45). True discipleship overflows in witness, naturally sharing Christ with others and inviting them to come and see for themselves. You cannot follow Jesus without telling others about Him and leading them to Him as well.
The Cost of Discipleship
Jesus never minimized discipleship's cost. In Luke 14:28-33, He taught about counting the cost before committing to follow Him, using illustrations of building a tower and going to war—both requiring careful calculation to ensure sufficient resources for completion. He concluded, "So likewise, whosoever he be of you that forsaketh not all that he hath, he cannot be my disciple" (Luke 14:33). Discipleship requires forsaking everything—possessions, relationships, ambitions, rights, preferences, comfort, security—that competes with absolute devotion to Christ. This does not necessarily mean physically abandoning family or possessions but subordinating everything to Christ's lordship, willing to release anything He requires. Many begin following Jesus enthusiastically but fall away when costs become clear—persecution arises, worldly pleasures entice, relationships pressure compromise, or suffering tests commitment. Jesus warned in John 6:66, "From that time many of his disciples went back, and walked no more with him." Authentic discipleship perseveres through all testing, proving genuine by enduring to the end.
The Example of Jesus
Jesus provides the perfect model of what He calls disciples to become. First Peter 2:21 declares, "For even hereunto were ye called: because Christ also suffered for us, leaving us an example, that ye should follow his steps." Christ's life demonstrates what God-honoring living looks like—perfect obedience to the Father, sacrificial love for others, humility in service, faithfulness in trials, forgiveness of enemies, dependence through prayer, and glory given to God in all things. Disciples study Christ's life not merely for information but transformation, asking the Holy Spirit to reproduce Christ's character in them.
Jesus demonstrated perfect obedience to God the Father despite intense temptation and suffering. Hebrews 5:8 states, "Though he were a Son, yet learned he obedience by the things which he suffered." In Gethsemane, facing the horror of bearing humanity's sin and experiencing separation from the Father, Jesus prayed, "O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt" (Matthew 26:39). His complete submission to the Father's will, even when it meant agonizing death, exemplifies discipleship's essence—surrendering personal preferences to accomplish God's purposes regardless of personal cost.
Jesus demonstrated sacrificial love throughout His ministry. John 13:1 states, "Having loved his own which were in the world, he loved them unto the end"—complete, unfailing, self-sacrificing love that endured betrayal, denial, and abandonment without ceasing to love. He washed His disciples' feet (John 13:3-17), performing the menial task of a household servant to teach them that greatness in God's kingdom comes through humble service. After washing their feet, He commanded, "For I have given you an example, that ye should do as I have done to you" (John 13:15). Disciples follow Jesus' example by serving others humbly, sacrificially, and lovingly regardless of personal recognition or reward.
Jesus maintained constant communion with the Father through prayer despite intense ministry demands. Mark 1:35 records, "And in the morning, rising up a great while before day, he went out, and departed into a solitary place, and there prayed." Before selecting the twelve apostles, "he went out into a mountain to pray, and continued all night in prayer to God" (Luke 6:12). If the Son of God needed extended prayer time to know and accomplish the Father's will, disciples certainly need consistent prayer to hear God's voice and receive strength for obedient living. Jesus' prayer life demonstrates that effective ministry flows from intimate communion with God, not from natural abilities, religious activities, or human strategies.
The Process of Discipleship
Discipleship is not instantaneous transformation but lifelong process of growing progressively more like Christ. Paul described this process in Romans 12:2: "And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God." Transformation occurs through mind renewal—replacing worldly thinking patterns with biblical truth, carnal values with kingdom priorities, and self-centered perspectives with God-centered worldview. This renewal happens gradually as believers consistently expose themselves to God's Word, allowing the Holy Spirit to apply truth and change thinking.
Second Corinthians 3:18 describes progressive transformation: "But we all, with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of the Lord, are changed into the same image from glory to glory, even as by the Spirit of the Lord." As believers behold Christ's glory through Scripture, the Holy Spirit gradually transforms them into Christ's image, producing increasing Christlikeness "from glory to glory"—progressive stages of sanctification that continue throughout earthly life. This transformation is the Holy Spirit's work, not human achievement, yet requires believers' cooperation through studying Scripture, obeying truth, and yielding to the Spirit's conviction and guidance.
Philippians 2:12-13 captures the partnership between divine sovereignty and human responsibility: "Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure." Believers must "work out" what God "works in"—actively pursuing obedience, holiness, and spiritual growth while recognizing that God produces both desire and ability to accomplish His purposes. This paradox—God's complete sovereignty and human genuine responsibility—characterizes the Christian life. You cannot become like Christ without God's power, yet God will not force transformation upon passive, disobedient believers who neglect spiritual disciplines and resist His work.
The Importance of Discipleship
Discipleship is essential for multiple reasons, beginning with obedience to Christ's command. Jesus commissioned believers to "make disciples of all nations" (Matthew 28:19), not merely make converts, fill church buildings, or increase membership rolls. Making disciples—leading people to saving faith in Christ, baptizing them as public profession of faith, and teaching them to obey all Christ commanded—is Christianity's primary mission. Churches, ministries, and individual believers who neglect discipleship disobey Christ's clear command and fail to fulfill their God-given purpose.
Second, discipleship is essential for spiritual growth and maturity. Hebrews 5:12-14 rebukes believers who remain spiritual infants despite adequate time to mature: "For when for the time ye ought to be teachers, ye have need that one teach you again which be the first principles of the oracles of God; and are become such as have need of milk, and not of strong meat. For every one that useth milk is unskilful in the word of righteousness: for he is a babe. But strong meat belongeth to them that are of full age, even those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil." Discipleship produces maturity—ability to handle deep biblical truth, discern good from evil, teach others effectively, and apply Scripture skillfully to life's complexities. Without discipleship, believers remain perpetual babies requiring constant care rather than becoming mature adults who care for others.
Third, discipleship strengthens believers for spiritual warfare and resistance to temptation. Ephesians 6:10-18 describes spiritual armor believers must wear to stand against Satan's schemes—truth, righteousness, gospel readiness, faith, salvation, God's Word, and prayer. Disciples learn to use these spiritual weapons through teaching, practice, and experience in the context of relationships with mature believers who model Christlike living and guide newer disciples through challenges. Isolated believers who neglect fellowship, accountability, and discipleship relationships become easy prey for Satan's deceptions and temptations.
Fourth, discipleship ensures the gospel's transmission to future generations. Second Timothy 2:2 presents the multiplication pattern: "And the things that thou hast heard of me among many witnesses, the same commit thou to faithful men, who shall be able to teach others also." Paul taught Timothy, Timothy taught faithful men, and those men taught others—four generations of discipleship multiplication. This pattern continues throughout church history as mature believers invest in newer believers, who mature and invest in others, creating exponential kingdom growth. Without intentional discipleship, the gospel message weakens, biblical truth dilutes, and Christianity degenerates into cultural religion devoid of transforming power.
The Benefits of Discipleship
While discipleship costs everything, it provides benefits infinitely exceeding its costs. First, discipleship produces spiritual growth in knowledge, faith, character, and effectiveness. As disciples study Scripture consistently, they grow in knowledge of God, His character, His ways, and His will. Romans 10:17 states, "So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God." Faith strengthens as believers learn more about God's faithfulness throughout Scripture and experience His faithfulness personally. Galatians 5:22-23 describes fruit the Holy Spirit produces in surrendered believers: "love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance." These character qualities develop progressively as disciples walk in obedience to the Spirit rather than gratifying fleshly desires.
Second, discipleship provides accountability and support through relationships with other believers. Proverbs 27:17 teaches, "Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend." Believers sharpen each other through honest conversation, loving confrontation, mutual encouragement, intercessory prayer, and practical help. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 celebrates partnership's advantages: "Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up. Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone? And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken." Discipleship relationships provide help when you fall, warmth when you're cold, defense when attacked, and strength to resist temptation.
Third, discipleship creates authentic Christian community characterized by love, unity, and mutual care. Acts 2:42-47 describes the early church's discipleship community: "And they continued stedfastly in the apostles' doctrine and fellowship, and in breaking of bread, and in prayers... And all that believed were together, and had all things common; And sold their possessions and goods, and parted them to all men, as every man had need. And they, continuing daily with one accord in the temple, and breaking bread from house to house, did eat their meat with gladness and singleness of heart, Praising God, and having favour with all the people. And the Lord added to the church daily such as should be saved." This community—centered on Scripture teaching, fellowship, worship, and prayer—met practical needs, shared resources sacrificially, worshiped joyfully, and grew numerically as the Lord added converts daily. Genuine discipleship creates this type of attractive, transformative community that draws unbelievers to Christ.
Additional Benefits
Fourth, discipleship equips believers for ministry and service. Ephesians 4:11-13 explains that Christ gave apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, and teachers "for the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ: Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ." Spiritual leaders equip all believers for ministry—not doing ministry while others watch but preparing everyone to serve according to their spiritual gifts. Discipleship discovers, develops, and deploys spiritual gifts so all believers function effectively in Christ's body. Fifth, discipleship provides purpose and meaning for life. Following Christ gives clear direction for living—glorifying God, making disciples, loving others, serving sacrificially, and advancing His kingdom. Sixth, discipleship produces eternal rewards. Jesus promised in Matthew 19:29, "And every one that hath forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my name's sake, shall receive an hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life." Sacrifices for Christ's sake yield hundredfold returns in this life and eternal rewards in the next.
Becoming a Disciple of Jesus
How does one become Jesus' disciple? First, you must recognize your need for salvation. Jesus came "to seek and to save that which was lost" (Luke 19:10). All have sinned and fall short of God's glory (Romans 3:23), and sin's wages is death (Romans 6:23). Without salvation through Jesus Christ, you remain under God's wrath, separated from Him, and condemned to eternal punishment. But God offers salvation as a free gift through faith in Jesus Christ who died for your sins and rose from the dead. Romans 10:9-10 promises, "That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation." Acknowledge your sin, believe Jesus died for your sins and rose from the dead, confess Him as Lord, and trust Him alone for salvation.
Second, commit yourself fully to following Jesus as Lord. Salvation is not merely fire insurance or ticket to heaven but entrance into relationship with Jesus Christ as Master, Lord, and King who deserves absolute obedience, wholehearted devotion, and complete surrender. Luke 9:23 states, "If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me." Count the cost, recognize that following Christ will require sacrifice and suffering, and commit yourself unreservedly to obeying Him regardless of consequences.
Third, immerse yourself in Scripture through consistent reading, study, memorization, and meditation. Jesus prayed to the Father in John 17:17, "Sanctify them through thy truth: thy word is truth." God's Word sanctifies—sets apart, purifies, and transforms—those who receive it humbly and obey it faithfully. Psalm 119:9-11 asks, "Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? by taking heed thereto according to thy word... Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee." Scripture keeps your way pure and prevents sin when you store it in your heart through memorization and apply it consistently to decisions, relationships, and temptations.
Fourth, develop consistent prayer habits including both speaking to God and listening for His voice. Jesus taught in John 15:7, "If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you." Abiding in Christ through prayer and Scripture positions you to pray according to God's will and receive what you ask. First Thessalonians 5:17 commands, "Pray without ceasing"—maintaining constant communion with God throughout each day, not just during designated prayer times. Share everything with God—thanksgiving, requests, confession, questions, worship—and listen expectantly for His guidance through Scripture, the Holy Spirit's promptings, circumstances, godly counsel, and supernatural peace confirming right directions.
Fifth, fellowship with other believers in a local church where you can worship, learn, serve, give, and develop accountable relationships. Hebrews 10:24-25 commands, "And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works: Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching." Believers need each other for encouragement, accountability, teaching, correction, and partnership in ministry. Find a Bible-believing, Christ-exalting church that teaches Scripture faithfully, practices church discipline lovingly, and prioritizes making disciples intentionally.
Sixth, serve others using whatever gifts, talents, resources, and opportunities God provides. First Peter 4:10 instructs, "As every man hath received the gift, even so minister the same one to another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God." Every believer possesses spiritual gifts—supernatural enablements for ministry—that should be discovered, developed, and deployed for building up Christ's body. Serving reveals your gifts, develops your character, deepens your joy, and fulfills your God-given purpose.
Seventh, share your faith with unbelievers, inviting them to trust Christ for salvation and follow Him as disciples. Acts 1:8 promises, "But ye shall receive power, after that the Holy Ghost is come upon you: and ye shall be witnesses unto me both in Jerusalem, and in all Judaea, and in Samaria, and unto the uttermost part of the earth." The Holy Spirit empowers believers to witness for Christ locally, regionally, cross-culturally, and globally. Begin sharing what Christ has done for you with family, friends, neighbors, and coworkers, and support missions financially and through prayer to reach people you cannot reach personally.
Your Invitation to Follow Jesus
Perhaps you realize you have never truly become Jesus' disciple. Maybe you have professed faith intellectually or participated in religious activities but never surrendered your life completely to Christ as Lord. Today, Jesus invites you to follow Him, just as He invited those first disciples two thousand years ago.
"Lord Jesus Christ, I confess that I am a sinner who has lived according to my own will rather than Yours. I have pursued my own plans, served my own interests, and rejected Your lordship over my life. I believe that You are the Son of God who died on the cross for my sins and rose from the dead, conquering sin and death. I repent of my sins and surrender my life completely to You as my Lord and Savior. I commit myself to following You as Your disciple—learning from You, obeying Your commands, and becoming like You through the Holy Spirit's power. Take control of my life completely. Transform me from the inside out. Teach me Your ways and empower me to walk in them faithfully. Help me to deny myself, take up my cross daily, and follow You regardless of cost. Use my life to bring glory to Your name and lead others to saving faith in You. Thank You for accepting me, forgiving me, and calling me to be Your disciple. In Your name I pray, Amen."
If you prayed that prayer sincerely from your heart, welcome to the greatest adventure possible—following Jesus Christ as His disciple! You have begun a journey of transformation that will continue throughout your life and culminate in perfect Christlikeness when you see Him face to face. First John 3:2 promises, "Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is." Commit yourself to growing as His disciple through consistent Scripture reading, prayer, fellowship with believers, service to others, and witness to unbelievers.
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Discipleship is not optional addition to Christianity but its very essence—what Jesus commanded, what the early church practiced, and what contemporary believers must recover. May you commit yourself wholeheartedly to following Jesus Christ, learning from Him daily, obeying Him completely, and becoming like Him progressively through the Holy Spirit's transforming work. To God be all glory forever!